335: How to put the 5 Love Languages into action - with Dr. Gary Chapman
January 22, 2024

This week, we are talking about the 5 Love Languages and how to put them into action. For a book that’s sold over 20 million copies and has been reprinted in 50 languages around the world, I have a feeling most people have heard of this concept of ‘finding your Love Language’ but not exactly sure how to make it make sense in your own work or life.

My special guest today is author Dr Gary Chapman and he’s simplifying how to put the 5 Love Languages into action. If you’ve got strained relationships where you feel like you’ve tried everything but can’t seem to get through to them, this episode is especially for you.

Here’s how.

My special guest today is Dr. Gary Chapman and he’s simplifying how to put the 5 Love Languages into action.

We tackle and simplify all aspects of it, including:

This book has been pivotal to so many relationships around the world. I mean it’s the one book that is most given as a wedding present to new couples than any others.

And I think at the heart of it is that it gives us a simple framework to remember how to show our appreciation for another person in a way they like to receive it. You can write thank you letters and buy people gifts all day long, but if Quality Time is their primary Love Language, they really just want to spend time with you… Nothing else matters.

Learn the secrets on today’s episode to avoid making the same mistake over and over again in your most cherished relationships.

Q: Are you ready to learn how to put the 5 Love Languages into action? If yes, this one is for you.

It’s time to #DoTheThing!


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My challenge for you this week:

How are you going to take what you’ve learned in today’s episode and try toput the 5 Love Languages into action this week? What’s one thing you’ll do differently? Share it with me, privately or publicly. Snap a photo of you doing the thing, and send me a DM over on LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/thesimplifiers) for added accountability and support!

Links, books and apps mentioned:

Book: 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts - Dr. Gary Chapman

Book: Love is a Choice: 28 Extraordinary Stories of the 5 Love Languages - Dr. Gary Chapman

Book: The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace - Dr Gary Chapman & Paul White

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About Dr. Gary Chapman:

Gary Chapman, Ph.D.—author, speaker, and counselor—has a passion for people, and for helping them form lasting relationships. He is the author of The 5 Love Languages, which has sold over twenty million copies.

Gary’s vote for the perfect guest on The Simplifiers Podcast:

Arlene Pellicane - blogger, speaker, author. Arlene joint-authored Growing Up Social: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World, with Dr Gary Chapman.

Where Gary hangs out online:

Facebook: @5LoveLanguages

Website: 5lovelanguages.com